Do you identify as an introvert?
I know I do. For some people, being an introvert means that they are quiet and keep to themselves. If this is you, groups of people can cause you apprehension…even a bit of anxiety. Despite being seen as shy, you’re probably a great listener and notice way more than the people doing all the talking. You might hesitate to add your voice to the conversation but that doesn’t mean you’re not making connections and organizing your reply. If you’re a social introvert, you probably find that you feel more comfortable in quiet, one-on-one social situations.
Other introverts don’t mind spending time with people—they can even be super outgoing—however, they need their alone time to recharge. If this is you, you might even be the life of the party when you choose to be. I wouldn’t call myself “life of the party” but I can talk with many people, as long as I get my ‘recharge’ time. You may even be able to, kind of, “fool people” into thinking that you’re always this personable and chatty. In reality, you often feel like you have a “social hangover” if you spend too much time around other people. You need down time to check in with yourself and tend to your needs. Despite the fact that you can show up present and powerful in just about every social situation, you still like those individual connections. I seriously get that. I mean, our advanced program has live events and personal coaching from me and Johnny, it’s no secret that I enjoy and excel at that one-on-one connection while Johnny excels at the teaching in the group format.
Now…you may find you’re a combo of the two types of introverts described above too! I can be that “extroverted introvert” myself. Whatever your experience as an introvert, the thought of attending a live event might not be something that you’d be scrambling to do. Of course, this is totally understandable…events mean people and people can sometimes be exhausting. That being said, you probably long to connect to other people still and feel a part of a group of people who care about you and your dreams.
Right? Who wouldn’t want that?
How Live Events Can Really Benefit Introverts
Here’s the thing, even if you’re an introvert, there are HUGE benefits to attending a live event. Well… the right live event anyways A lot of the women we work with identify as introverts. And they always tell us how glad they are that they decided to come to our annual live event weekend. (More on that later.) Here are some of the reasons attending the right kind of live event actually benefits introverts:4
1. Introverts prefer discussing big ideas to having to participate in small talk. Our live events are all about the big ideas.
Really, what bigger idea exists than that of finding soulmate love? (And what exactly has been holding you back from doing just that.) At our live events we put a lot of effort into fostering an environment and conversations that are real and substantial. (Of course we give you time to digest what you’re learning too so you don’t get overwhelmed!) Johnny and I know that your time and energy are so valuable which is why we don’t add unnecessary fluff to our curriculum. Only real and powerfully experiential learning about love in a space that is safe, supportive, and fun.
2. Introverts prefer to spend time around like-minded people. Our live events bring together women with similar perspectives, beliefs, and interests.
Everyone is an individual, and we’re not all exactly alike. However, if you’re serious about finding healthy love, a man with integrity, heart, and who respects and honors you, and you have high standards, and you’re ready to get some real learning about what’s been blocking true love from you, you’ll find lots of kindred spirits in our room. We’re so lucky that our work attracts such amazing women—women just like you. What this means is that at our live events, you get to spend time with people who are on the same journey as you. So you don’t have to “socially sift” to find people who you can easily connect to. Which is super important for introverts.
3. Introverts like to take time to gather their thoughts and think about what they’re going to say next. At our live events, other people will appreciate your way of contributing to the conversation and will give you space to be heard.
Being seen and heard as an introvert is really important to you. However, you may find that it can be hard to get in a word edgewise when you’re in a group of people. We get it. At our live events, the other women in attendance—some of whom are also introverts—will value what you have to offer. So you’ll have a chance to be heard without having to rush yourself to respond. Johnny and I create all our curriculum together, and as an experienced educator, Johnny has a way of teaching that—many women tell us—allows you to feel connected to others yet alone with your thoughts and feelings, and it’s all honored and valued.
4. Introverts need to feel understood in order to feel comfortable showing up and being themselves. At our live events, people get that you’ll sometimes need space and take joy in supporting you in that way.
Of course one of the biggest concerns that introverts have when attending live events is, “Will I be able to get the space and quiet that I need to recharge?” YES! At least you will at our live events. Our events are high impact, high energy, and uplifting… yet deep at the same time (many women call our unique teaching style “masterful” and “empowering”). Johnny and I think it’s wonderful that you need your “you time” in order to make the most of what you’re learning about attracting soulmate love. We built our curriculum to accommodate many different ways of learning. And have always found that the women who attend our events are so happy to finally have JOY on this journey, while connecting with others and not feeling so alone anymore, as everyone supports each other in the ways they need to be supported. And since our staff are all women who have worked with us before, they know more of how you’re feeling because they have literally been in your seat and often felt the exactly the same way at one point time.
5. Introverts can find high-energy people and situations draining. Our live events attract both introverts and extroverts however our teachings are down-to-earth, yet powerfully uplifting, so you’ll feel energized—not overwhelmed.
Everyone loves (and sometimes really needs) a pep talk. You can get that from an inspirational quote on Facebook or Instagram. That being said, you need inspiration and new information, as well as new experiences in order to shift on the inside (not just in your head). By having breakthroughs happen, in real time, from the inside out, you’ll find that even as an introvert (or extroverted introvert, or flat out extrovert) our more grounded approach to teaching women about attracting soulmate love often feels both uplifting and exciting since you’ll finally not just learn something new, but FEEL something new. Of course, we’re here to inspire you…however, we are definitely not here to overwhelm you! (Even thinking about finding soulmate love, what’s going on, whats blocking love from me…it’s probably all overwhelming enough, right?) Instead, we offer real and realistic ways you can shift your relationship status from single to soulmate love.
Love Breakthroughs Are Possible For Introverts!
As an introvert, you deserve to be in a loving and committed relationship with a man who appreciates your introverted ways. Someone who sees your potential and knows how to support you in finding it. On the way to meeting your sweetheart, it can be really beneficial to be around other women who will appreciate you, see your potential and support you on your journey toward being with your soulmate. Our Love Breakthrough Weekend is designed to show women—both introverts and extroverts—a way to learn and break through their biggest blocks to true love, and see what’s possible for them when it comes to finding soulmate love. The partner who loves and appreciates them…as they are. And if you have any questions (we know you value connecting one-on-one with people) or comments please comment below! We’re real people, with 12 years of real results, and we’re really invested in helping you step into your full radiance as the beautiful, thoughtful, and deserving introvert that you are.
If I can find my true love as an introvert, then so can you, you just gotta come out of that shell just a little bit, we’ll be there to meet you with warm, welcoming arms or a warm handshake, whatever you prefer. (we hug a lot in California 😉 )
“Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts. Rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love but in reality, love is the only thing in the world that covers up all the pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. Love is the only thing in the world that does not hurt.” – Liam Neeson