Stop attracting the wrong men and find a relationship with someone who loves you for the real you, even if you’ve been hurt in the past.

Welcome! We’re Johnny and Lara. Since 2005 we’ve been helping wonderful women, just like you, stop ending up in relationships with lazy/abusive/commitment-phobic men, and find relationships with their soulmates, and we’re here to tell you: it’s not too late!

We realize your path to this page has been unique.

And we also realize that at times, the journey towards finding real love can feel like a challenge. You may be frustrated because you haven’t met your soulmate yet… or perhaps even worried that your dreams of real love won’t actually happen for you, as time slips by and you’re left wondering if there is even anyone out there for you.

We know how you feel… we’ve been there too.

If you want to read more about how we attracted one-another, and the back-story of how we started helping others (hint: neither of us had planned on it), you can read more about that here.

But you’re probably here because you’re wondering: where do I start?!?

We’re here to help!

But first, we want to know more about your particular details so we can customize our advice specifically for you!

The first thing we’d recommend? Take our super-short quiz…

Overcome your Disruptive Love Patterns before you pick one more guy who’s wrong for you!

Start making better love decisions overnight.

In your customized results you’ll learn…

  • Which of five “love patterns” you’re not even aware of is hurting your chances of finding love.
  • The exact 3 step method we coach to help you go from choosing men who cheat or abandon you to finding a relationship you can feel safe in and excited about.
  • A deceptively-simple tool you can use every day to keep the wrong men for you permanently in your rearview mirror.